Whether it be troubled lovers or pink haters, Valentine’s Day is a loathed holiday for some. However, Valentine’s Day deserves to be celebrated and defended for its affectionate atmosphere.

1. Family reunions

Typically, Valentine’s Day is misinterpreted as a day only for lovers; thus, singles spend uneventful, lonely nights at home. Friends and family are often left out of the picture. Why not spend the evening at a family gathering? It’s completely fine to be single at any age. After all, Valentine’s Day is a reminder to take time to love the people most important to you every day.

     2. Enjoyable, even if single

Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean another lonely night, eating a pint of ice cream and watching a rom com. It’s a party night with your friends. Whether you’re going out, playing video games, or still watching a rom com, it’s definitely more enjoyable with your friends. Dinner reservations don’t necessarily apply to couples only–how about going out to the Cheesecake factory with your squad?

     3. Forget the candy

Obviously, Valentine’s Day involves candy. Slacking off once in a while on that diet won’t hurt anyone, and everyone loves it (unless you don’t). Maybe you don’t like those chalky candy hearts or mini chocolate bars. Maybe fun dip is too powdery, and jelly beans are too chewy. Some people think that without candy on Valentine’s Day, a gift is ruined–not true at ALL. How about buying flowers, jewelry or a bear?  They’re cliché, but adorable. Of course, Valentine’s Day isn’t about the money spent, so making a card or baking something sweet are definitely acceptable gifts.

Even if you don’t have money, a lover, or a taste for candy, Valentine’s Day is a time to appreciate.  It’s the one day out of 365 that we take time to love our favorite people.